One landscaping trend is to use very few colors. Some people prefer a very muted palette and consider it calming. My preference is for lots of color. But I do like some neutral plants in the mix.
Prairie Sage is a perennial that doesn’t bloom.
The color is an even gray. The branches are a little brittle but don’t break in the wind.
But even when I used grays, I like to have a little punch near it.
Dusty Miller is an old faithful that has been used for years by our ancestors.
The softness of the foliage makes it a very touchable plant. It needs full sun but can take some shade part of the day. Here in Zone 8 it is a perennial, but in lower zones the winter cold kills it.
As soft as soft can be and a slight soothing scent.
Planted in the ground, Artemisia just goes crazy. It has pretty much taken over this flower. I have to keep trimming it back because part of the bed is planted with roses and other flowering plants. Growing low to the ground, the branches root and spread.
Texas Purple Sage or “cenizo” (Leucophyllum frutescens) is very popular in Central Texas. It is beautiful when purple blooms appear. However, that’s only after a rain, which happens seldom here. It can get thin without enough water.
It is not a sage or a salvia, but is in the figwort family. A nature to Texas and northern Mexico, it is drought tolerant. Not my favorite, but somehow I feel obligated to have this native.
Of course, there are other choices for gray in the yard, such as Globe Mallow and Gray Santolina. Aren’t you glad you get to pick the colors or lack of for your own space?
“Gray hair is a blessing. Ask any bald man.” unknown